Sunday, June 27, 2004

Quick note

YO. just a quick note this week. I need you all to send me mailing addresses!!! Apparently mail is quite cheap here, and it's easier to write in my room than to get to the internet cafe and have limited time to write to everyone. SO. And that means you should mail me too(even thouhg it's more expensive from your end).
Highlights of this past week:
Last Sunday Elisa and I went to the house of Shanti, one of the staff members at the institute. It was a little bit of a shock to me to arrive there and discover it was a cement block consisting of 3 meager rooms, maximum 10ft x 10ft each. One bonus though: all Indian houses have flat rooftops which you can go up to, and they're quite cool and nice in the evenings. Shanti has three young children. Elisa and I played with them a lot which was really fun - luckily we know enough Hindi that we were able to get on quite well without much trouble! Of course, the oldest one IS only 4 so they don't speak tons anyway, but whatever... It was also fun because we decided to dress up in sarees for our visit, which the girls helped us to put on. They love it when we do anythng Indian, and were all offering us bangles and bindis and whatnot.
On Friday night, Janak invited us to go with her to a pre-wedding party. They had a nice outdoor tent set up with a big mattress in one corner where they were doing henna, and we each got to get our hands done! It really made me think of Monsoon Wedding.
For those of you who were worried that I won't get to see Harry Potter on the big screen, never fear! Harry Potter is apparently already in the big cities, and as soon as it's translated it will come here. So I will top you - I'll get to see it in Hindi!
Well I gotta run, but don't forget to send me your addresses!
Love,
me

Sunday, June 20, 2004

At long last, a typical day at the Institute!

Alright, here it is, the promised description of the Institute. There are about 100 girls there, minimum age is supposed to be 16 on the birth certificate - however many of them don't know their age, and whole villages will apply with the same birthdates for everyone, or sisters who are a few days apart. Over the past week a new group of girls has been slowly moving in, with more coming almost every day. They should be almost all here by now, and will be here for 6 months, so I get them almost from start to finish!
There is one main building, which has 3 dormitories - basically just large rooms, which are essentially empty during the day, and at night they roll out thin mattresses along both walls to sleep there. The girls have a common bathroom, and there are two large classrooms. There are also two staff rooms and the volunteer bedroom, where I live. Upstairs is the kitchen and another large room, where we eat our meals and they use for some group stuff during the day as well as formal occasions. There is also a large open space (which is really the roof of the stuff downstairs) where they keep the girls dishes and have taps for washing up after meals. Our meals are usually cooked by solar heat, though lately it's been mostly over wood fire or gas because with the monsoon there isn't enough sun most of the time. There is also a guest room on this floor and one downstairs as well.
Next to the main building on one side is Janak and Jimmy's house. They run the Institute, and are really great people. Janak is native to India and has been here since the Institute started, and Jimmy is from Ireland, though now much browned by the Indian sun.
Opposite Janak and Jimmy's house is what was a workshop and before that the only building here, and is currently torn down and being rebuilt. Next to that is the office, which contains the library (albeit a very small one) and a computer room, and Janak and Jimmy each have their own offices.
Behind the office is farmland. We grow mangos, bananas, papayas (i think), lemons, mint, pumpkins and some other stuff. We also possess about 6 or 7 peacocks - which make a sound not unlike that of a gigantic cat meowing - some dogs, two cats and now 3 two-week-old kittens. Plus Jimmy thinks the other cat is pregnant too! Anybody want to adopt some cats? We're allowed to take whatever we want from the gardens, but unfortunately not too much is growing right now except for lemons and some terribly unripe mangoes.
First thing in the morning is farmwork of some kind with the girls. It's hard to sleep too much past 6:30 around here as there are girls making noise all over the courtyard which is right outside my window. I've only been able to actually get myself moving at that hour for the past two days though.
At 9:00 breakfast is served - the girls always have Poha, wich is basically sort of a fried rice with onions and stuff in it. It's ok, but I couldn't eat it all the time. So instead Elisa and I go to the kitchen and make Chapatis! In the kitchen is Manju, who calls us "bitte" (meaning my child), and teaches us words like "ata" and "gundo" meaning, respectively, flour and dough, while we mix the chapati dough. Then once it's mixed you pinch a small ball off and roll it up, douse it in some ata and start rolling it out into a nice flat round disc. We're usually two slow though, and before long someone else takes the rolling pin out of our hands and tells us not to work and go sit while they make it for us. The Chapati disc gets thrown on the cooker to puff up until it's nicely browned, then we take them down to our room and eat them with Janak's homemade mango jam. YUM!
After breakfast we normally do some kind of office work or whatever needs to be done. I've been doing some sewing this past week, and eventually will be teaching some of the more advanced girls (who know some english) to do some patterning, so that they can teach the other girls. The past two days Elisa and I have started planting a garden in front of Janak and Jimmy's house where we'll grow some western herbs and vegetables, which will be nice.
And that's enough for now! I hope you appreciate it, as I've missed lunch while writing this! Hopefully Elisa will have saved some for me though. We'll see. Good news: Jimmy has a card reader, so I can get my digital pictures online! I probably won't get a chance to do so until next week or so though. Take care and much love,
Me.

Sunday, June 13, 2004

ARGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!

WELL. I was going to say I'm having a GREAT time here, but I just got an email saying that the GIGANTIC post which I sent LAST WEEKEND apparently didn't go through. Sorry to all you folks who have been madly checking my website (as I know you have) because you have nothing better to do with your lives and my absence in your lives is just too much to bear. SO. Here's how my message started:
Hello All!!
I've been in India for almost a week now, spending about 3 days in Delhi and arriving at the Institute in Indore just yesterday. I thought it was about time to let you guys know what I've been up to!
So like I said, I was in Delhi for 3 days where I had nothing to do but sightsee and explore. Here are some of my observations about Delhi: crowds, dirt (lots and lots of it), places that look abandoned but are really quite fully functioning and can even be totally modern inside sometimes, tourists, beggars, upper crust fashionistas and an amazing pastiche of east and west rolled into one. Oh, and don't forget the
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Yes, that's right. MESSAGE TRUNCATED. Because apparently the "Mailer Daemon" doesn't feel it's necessary to include the whole message I sent and my free yahoo mail account doesn't automatically save sent mail. oh well.
I honestly have no clue what came after "don't forget the". Too bad. I'm sure it was very interesting. So here I am, settled into India, at the Institute where I am seeing people over and over and have familiar faces again, which is GREAT. I was going to tell you all about the Institute today but unfortunately since you didn't get the message about Delhi and I have to head back to the Institute for dinner, it will have to wait for another time. Basically here's the skinny on Delhi:
Day 1: exploring Connaught Place - basically a relatively modern shopping area but like all of India a great mix of old and new, dirt and things falling apart next to brand new westernized stores like McDonalds(which yes I did go into). Most of the stores are really teeny and you can barely fit two people side by side in.
Day 2: Saw India Gate (really just the Indian version of the Arc de Triomphe in Paris, only dirty because it's in India). Went to this really odd ghost town/not ghost town exhibition place.
Day 3: Old Delhi on a bicycle rickshaw and the Red Fort. Then down to the Baha'i Temple which was amazing, made me weak at the knees and really felt like coming home (tears started streaming out of my face when I sat down and as though it weren't enough that I was white and redheaded made people stare at me even more).
Then I hopped on a train to Indore, which was really quite nice, and here I am. But Elise (yes, there is another volunteer here. Hooray! She's from Canada) is waiting downstairs and we're late for dinner. Back to the Institute! More later.
MUCH MUCH LOVE,
Dena
P.S. Don't forget to write!!